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If you haven't heard already, singer Katy Perry filmed a clip of her performing with Elmo that was set to air on Sesame Street. But the clip has been pulled due to complaints that Katy Perry's dress is too "sexy". I'm at total loss for words to how anyone would think that her dress is too revealing. All I can say is that the parents who raised a stink about Katy Perry's attire should probably never take their children to a public swimming pool either for fear that their little minds should get corrupted from the mere sight of the human body *sigh*

I cannot put into words how richly blessed I feel right now that came as a result of choosing to honor and observe Yom Kippur by prayer, fasting and basically consecrating the day to God. Alot of good came out of it that I will tell in due time but for now, I'll let you in on some cool things I discovered for you to check out. On Yom Kippur I was listening to a bunch of sermons and podcasts and there was one speaker that caught my attention. His name is Dr Robi Sondregger and his is a clinical psychologist who has a degree in neuroscience.

I can tell you right now that i have been to church all my life but I have never heard a speaker like Dr. Robi. He masterfully blends humor, scripture, and science. The whole theme of his messages are about protecting children, protecting the family, fighting child trafficking and exploitation, self esteem and creating better self awareness so one you can take care of yourself and your relationships. And I just want to say that when I say "protecting the family" it is not sermons about defending the definition of marriage. That is not what he talks about. What he talks about is the breakdown of communication, security and all the thinks that make a healthy relationship function. He actually did a whole series on family life that is available as a free podcast on "Hillsong Church Capetown". You can download it on itunes.

For example, in one of the messages he talks about one of the reasons people gets into pornography. He explains that anytime you have a damaging event in your life or anything your brain registers as pain, your brain automatically as a defense mechanism. This is why when you go through a breakup, you automatically want to sit on the couch with ice-cream and the TV. You brain is wanting to get those pleasure receptors going to deal with pain.  He also mentioned that sometimes boredom can be registered in your brain as pain so when you are bored, your brain automatically wants to start finding some form of pleasure. And it's at that vulnerable moment at your computer and you are bored that you get that little message with a picture attached to it saying that a "friend" is waiting to meet you.  Pornography and so many other things have been the reason for the breakdown of relationships and he comes from a educated perspective and gives people coping techniques with his background in childwelfare and neuroscience.

Although I am single, I gleaned so much from listening to him talk. There are things that I can learn to help improve myself and there are principles he taught on how to make relationships work that is definitely an asset for me to keep in mind for the future.  Because honestly, relationships are relationships whether it is a friendship or a romance. Alot of my very close friends have told me that things you need to make a friendship work are very similar to what makes a romantic relationship work. No matter what relationships I may have in my world, there is always room for improvement and I am always looking for ways to keep things fresh.

 Dr. Robi has two excellent websites www.drrobi.com and www.ihold.tv He actually did a whole series on family life that is available as a free podcast on "Hillsong Church Capetown". You can download it on itunes. Or you could just search his name on itunes under "Dr Robi Sonderegger" and you should be able to find the series.  I have included a clip of him speaking at a conference so you can get a taste of him as a speaker.

Enjoy!

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Shalom...

Yom Kippur begins at sunset today. For those of you who may not be familiar with Judeo-Christian traditions, Yom Kippur is the holiest day on the Jewish calendar. In Israel, literally the whole city shuts down for a whole 25 hours until the following Saturday. It is the sabbath of sabbath, a 25 hour period where the people have this one day to atone for all their sins before God and have their record wiped clean for this coming year. The holiday isn't so much about the judgment of God as it is about the mercy of God and his willingness to wipe our record clean if we come before him with repentance. I found an amazing article reflecting on Yom Kippur and I encourage you to read it. Those of you who are fans of my writing style are going to like this article very much. There are many things in the article that reflect my personal belief system and my perspective of God and I found it to be an excellent read.

The Fast Track to Love and Forgiveness by Rabbi David Aaron

But for Yom Kippur, I want to use another Bible story to illustrate a truth. The story is of a woman in the Bible named Hagar. And by the end of this blog, you'll see how I'm using this story as a tie in to the theme of love & forgiveness, which is what Yom Kippur is all about. Alot of people know about the story of Abraham & Isaac and how God promised a son to Abraham in his old age and that Abraham would be the father of many descendants, which are the Jewish people today. But Abraham is not just the father to one people group, he is actually the father of two.

You see, after God gave the promise to Abraham, Abraham really had no idea how all this would come to pass. So he tried to take things into his own hands. His wife Sarai, had a servant named Hagar and Sarai decided to see if they could make God's promise come to pass by getting Abraham to impregnant her servant. Abraham agrees to this and impregnates Hagar. Now when Hagar first gets pregnant, she uses her pregnancy as leverage to mock and disrespect Sarai. So there is a falling out between the two women and Sarai uses her position of power and authority mistreat Hagar. Hagar flees and soon finds herself out in the desert near a spring.

It is then that an angel comes to her and talks to her. Hagar explains that she is fleeing from her mistress The angel tells her that this child of hers is very special and to go back to her mistress and submit to her authority. Hagar does just that and in the Bible, there is no further account of Hagar ever disrespecting Sarai again. Later on Hagar then gives birth to a son and names him Ishmael and the prophecy that the angel said would that the child would have a great destiny and he would also be "wild" and be constantly be against everyone and everything. I think that words of the angel were proven right one day when Ishmael was fighting with Isaac. Sarai sees this and uses it as grounds to send Hagar and Ishmael away.

Abraham did not want to do this because Ishmael was also his son but Sarai was insistent that she wants nothing to do with them. So Abraham sends Hagar and Ishmael away with a few provisions. They end up in the desert and their provisions run out. Hagar then begins to cry out to God. Then a voice from heaven speaks to her and asks her what is the matter. She replies by saying that she does not want to see the boy die. They did nothing wrong to end up here in this place. God speaks to her and tells her that he has heard her cry and then God opens Hagar's eyes to see a well of water and they were able to refill the water skin. The Bible then says God was with the lad and he lived in the wilderness of Paran, became an expert in Archery and married an Egyptian woman.

And there are some points from this story that I want to reflect on . Hagar was an egyptian born slave woman. She could not help what she was born into, her background, class and status. None of her outcome was because of any wrong doing of hers. She couldn't change the fact that she was born an egyptian, or that she was a slave. She couldn't control the fact that Abraham and Sarai decided to use her to conceive a child. It wasn't her fault that she got sent out into the desert to die with her a child that really had been their idea to conceive through her. But God never forgot her and not only did God save the child, God made him into a great nation too.

This is a story that has been very close to my heart these last few days. My story is one that similar to Hagar's, I was born into things I couldn't help. And due to other people's choices, I was left very disadvantaged in life. There was a nite this week where I was feeling rather down and it was then that God came to me with this story and I realized that no matter what the outcome of our situations, God can create greatness out of our lives. There are some of you out there that may be like me, you couldn't help what you were born into. You couldn't help the choices people made of those who had power and authority. But this Yom Kippur, remember that God is just and he can birth greatness out of you. Hagar's son Ishmael became the father of the Arabic people and Hagar lived the rest of her life happy and free.....and you can too.

http://www.womeninthebible.net/1.2.Hagar.htm

G'mar Tov :)

(In Hebrew this literally means "A good finish". It is the proper greeting for Yom Kippur. It expresses a desire and wish for someone to be inscribed in the Book of Life for a good year)

I am sitting here in the coffee shop Khona, my tummy happy, content, and full from just having eaten an all you can eat feast at Victoria's one and only Sukiyaki restaurant, Posh. If you are in Victoria looking for a healthy alternative that is cheap and even gives you the chance to escape H.S.T. then look no further than "Posh" on 1063 Fort St (where fort meets cook st).

I was quickly seated by their friendly and polite staff but before I got seated, a sign at the entrance caught my attention. It said "Beat H.S.T. Between July - Sept we will take off H.S.T. if you pay entirely in cash." Upon reading that sign I was sold on this place. An all you can eat restaurant where simply by paying cash you can get 5% taken off your bill. Before I thought that such a place existed only in my imagination.

It didn't take long for me to learn exactly what Japanese Sukiyaki is. Many cultures in the world have their own version of a hot pot.  A type of meal where there is a hotpot in the centre and vegetable and meat get thrown into it. Sukiyaki is the Japanese version of a hotpot. How it works is that when you are seated at the restaurant, someone will come to you with an electric hotpot with some cabbage and water in it. The staff turns on the hotpot and the water starts to boil with the cabbage inside.

You then get given a sheet with a list of vegetables and types of meat. All you have to do is tick off what exactly you want and what quantities you want.  It is such a wicked deal because you can ask for as much meat or vegetables as you want. If I want 10 pieces of tofu and 4 bowls of rice, they will bring it to me.  I soon found myself with some platters with strips of raw meat a huge plate filled with all the vegetables I requested, and a side or raw noodles. Not to mention the three bowls of rice I had asked to go along with it. Looking back, if I had know that the meal would have been as filling as it was, I probably would not have asked for so much rice.

So i began tossing the different meats, vegetables and noodles into this boiling hotpot. Whenever the liquid got too low, there were containers filled with water and sauce at the side that I could use to refill the hotpot. My sukiyaki experience had begun........and it sure was tasty!  The amount if vegetables and meat I had ordered amounted to 3 course meal. As soon as I was done eating the first round, I threw on more vegetables and meat for the 2nd round. It was about halfway through the second round that I looked up and realized that there was just enough uncooked vegetables and meat left for a 3rd round, which I had no stomach left for. If i had been looking for a cheap way to fill my belly with as much as I possible could, I achieved my goal.

It was then I the brilliant idea to throw the rest of the food into the hotpot and cook to take back for dinner or possibly breakfast or lunch tomorrow. It was then I found out that technically, the restaurant does not do "take out" for the "all you can eat" type of meals. At least not in the sense that you and I are used to where we can have whatever is left over just packed way into boxes. Instead, if you want to take whatever is left of the food, you would pay $4 extra and they would give you a little carton for your take out. You have to pay $4 for each carton that you need or want. Fortunately, the remainder of my food all fit into one carton so I only ended up having to pay $4 extra.

Altogether, I ended up paying $22 in total including the tip. And I can't help feeling like I got a killer deal. I ate the equivalent to a two course meal until I was completely stuffed and had enough to take back with me for a 3rd meal. Along with a tall glass of authentic Japanese Matcha to wash down my food for $2.50  And I got the full sukiyaki experience without having to go to Japan.  Getting a cross cultural experience at such a low price leaves only one things to be said........ITADAKIMASU!!!!!!!

Posh